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Proud Parent
Background:
DD has been in her new group for 2 months now. She went from regular pre team to the TOPS level 4 group. They're all 6-8yo, and pretty talented. Over half the group is either repeating L4, or was in the same group, doing the same skills, but L3. So, they've all trained together the past 1.5 years.
A few came from the TOPS pre team. 1 girl came from the regular L3 group. These girls joined the group back in December, so they've been there almost 6 months.
DD has been coming home sad that the girls are still being mean to her. They tell her that she's doing everything wrong, she can't do X skill but they can, and that she's not as good as they are. It's gotten so bad that she sometimes eats her snack by herself. Today, the "regular L3" girl sat with her in another room. DD said they sometimes sit over there when they other girls are being mean.
As a team, one of the mom's has started putting together 'play date' type activities once a month, so the girls can connect on a level other than gym.
Is it worth mentioning to the coaches? Or should I 'let it go' for awhile and hope these get togethers help? DD is very sensitive and loving and caring. She sweet and smart and such a hard-worker. It just makes me sad that she feels the need to eat by herself.
What do you think?
DD has been in her new group for 2 months now. She went from regular pre team to the TOPS level 4 group. They're all 6-8yo, and pretty talented. Over half the group is either repeating L4, or was in the same group, doing the same skills, but L3. So, they've all trained together the past 1.5 years.
A few came from the TOPS pre team. 1 girl came from the regular L3 group. These girls joined the group back in December, so they've been there almost 6 months.
DD has been coming home sad that the girls are still being mean to her. They tell her that she's doing everything wrong, she can't do X skill but they can, and that she's not as good as they are. It's gotten so bad that she sometimes eats her snack by herself. Today, the "regular L3" girl sat with her in another room. DD said they sometimes sit over there when they other girls are being mean.
As a team, one of the mom's has started putting together 'play date' type activities once a month, so the girls can connect on a level other than gym.
Is it worth mentioning to the coaches? Or should I 'let it go' for awhile and hope these get togethers help? DD is very sensitive and loving and caring. She sweet and smart and such a hard-worker. It just makes me sad that she feels the need to eat by herself.
What do you think?