A couple of years ago we were at the Visa Championships (as spectators). We happened to sit by a parent of one of the competitors. This Elite gymnast had an okay meet, but not the meet she or her parents had hoped for and she did not make the National Team. It was an eye-opening experience for my daughter and I to sit with her parent and have just a little sliver of a glimpse into how disappointing it was for them to put so much time, money and sacrifice as a family into the Elite scene and to realize that her dream of National Team just probably wasn't going to happen for her. Ever since then I have been very thankful that while my dd is talented, she is not "Elite level talented" and therefore we don't have to make those kinds of decisions as a family.