cbifoja
Proud Parent
and i completely get what you are saying also. but in our industry, and without defensive posture, those that have been at this awhile have seen our share of parents that have quite literally ruined their child's gymnastics future. and mostly because they lived "vicariously" thru their children. and most had parents that never amounted too much in sports.
I understand this and think that maybe this is why the Universe didn't give me the Ballerina Baby I always dreamed of. Because I would have been living vicariously through her in dance. But she's safe with gym! It was never my dream so she's free to succeed at her own pace. I actually just went through the whole "this is your window to quit if it is too much" discussion since meet fees are due on the first of September.