MomIdidit!
Proud Parent
My feedback assumed that the situation was more than just a coach being tough. But if that's the case, then I do agree with you @coachp . It definitely warrants another discussion with the coach (directly since you said she's taking over the gym anyway) either way before a decision is made.
My DD has a coach who she feels hates her. The coach doesn't. She's awesome, but tough. But you know your daughter and whether she's an exaggerator or not. Mine's a drama queen but I know when something is really bugging her.