I'm looking for some advise on the best way to explain a situation to my dd. Her coaches are very hard on her. Her coaches have told me that they are very hard on her because she has so much potential. I totally understand this coaching concept, but I don't know how to get my dd (who is 6 years old) to understand it. I don't want to explain it in any way that makes her think she's better than the rest of the girls. I like the innocence that she has when it comes to how she "compares" to the other girls. She doesn't see herself as having any more ability or talent and I don't want her thinking she's better. But, how do I explain why the coaches are harder on her in a way that does not use comparisons?