I actually feel very positive about what is going on.
As someone who (once upon a time) moved from an absurdly manipulative, unhealthy gym to a wonderful, amazing gym, it will take a while to shake off the fog from the old crazy place. The anxiety, embarrassment, and insecurity will fade. Don’t worry about it. The awful places don’t just make the gymnasts into nervous wrecks, but their parents as well. I know. I was there. Be glad you are in a healthy place now and watch month by month as each of you start to care less what the other place thinks, or even anything about them.
One day you will forget they exist. For now, vodka gummy bears!
Best wishes on this meet.
As someone who (once upon a time) moved from an absurdly manipulative, unhealthy gym to a wonderful, amazing gym, it will take a while to shake off the fog from the old crazy place. The anxiety, embarrassment, and insecurity will fade. Don’t worry about it. The awful places don’t just make the gymnasts into nervous wrecks, but their parents as well. I know. I was there. Be glad you are in a healthy place now and watch month by month as each of you start to care less what the other place thinks, or even anything about them.
One day you will forget they exist. For now, vodka gummy bears!
Best wishes on this meet.