My DD has a very good friend at her gym, who for the past couple of years has wanted to quit gymnastics. The first time was after she compted Level 5 and was afraid of the BWO on beam for Lv 6. Last year she wanted to quit because she was apprehensive over moving to Lv 7 and doing the BHS on beam. Her mom each year has forced her to give gymnastics another year stating that she can't "quit" because of a fear, that she needs to learn how to push past the fears and conquer it. This year she has competed Lv 7, and again wants to quit gymnastics. She has often made comments about not having as much fun and not enjoying gymnastics like before, her grades have suffered and she is starting high school next year. Her mom again is forcing and blackmailing her into staying. First her mom said that she could quit and do prep-op. Then she said no to prep-op, and that she had to stay until she got her BHS on beam. Now she said that if she quits gymnastics (at our gym), then she will go to a different high school that has a gymnatics team, or she can stay at our gym, and go to her original high school with all her friends.
What are your thoughts? Should by dd's friend be allowed to leave? What harm could come mentally or physically if she continues and truly doesn't want to be there?
Thanks in advance, sorry it was so long
What are your thoughts? Should by dd's friend be allowed to leave? What harm could come mentally or physically if she continues and truly doesn't want to be there?
Thanks in advance, sorry it was so long