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cathiann
Not sure I need advice or just a place to vent, but I am SO upset with a girl at my daughter's gym.
They do a team camp every summer--over a long weekend and the girls do a lip sync contest each year. Typically they get together with their friends or an entire level will do a song. It's pretty elaborate!
Last year all the level 9s did a song together. This year all the 9s, but Beth (my daughter) want to move to 10 (I can tell you now that some won't make it, and if they do, will be poor 10s). Beth wants to stay 9 so she can really do well as a 9.
Why do I mention this? Because one of the girls who wants to move up has decided that because Beth will "only" be a 9, she can't do the song with them! Despite the fact that they've been together--and supposedly friends--for years, suddenly she can't associate with my daughter anymore because they might be different levels next year (and I say "might" because her skills are similar to my daughter's--Beth is better at some events and this girl is better at others). Needless to say, Beth is pretty upset about being dumped and isn't happy at all.
I've never run into this before--do you see it at your gym? I'm friends with her mom--but I can't imagine telling her that her daughter is being a little snot LOL! Advice? Suggestions? Comforting words of encouragement?
They do a team camp every summer--over a long weekend and the girls do a lip sync contest each year. Typically they get together with their friends or an entire level will do a song. It's pretty elaborate!
Last year all the level 9s did a song together. This year all the 9s, but Beth (my daughter) want to move to 10 (I can tell you now that some won't make it, and if they do, will be poor 10s). Beth wants to stay 9 so she can really do well as a 9.
Why do I mention this? Because one of the girls who wants to move up has decided that because Beth will "only" be a 9, she can't do the song with them! Despite the fact that they've been together--and supposedly friends--for years, suddenly she can't associate with my daughter anymore because they might be different levels next year (and I say "might" because her skills are similar to my daughter's--Beth is better at some events and this girl is better at others). Needless to say, Beth is pretty upset about being dumped and isn't happy at all.
I've never run into this before--do you see it at your gym? I'm friends with her mom--but I can't imagine telling her that her daughter is being a little snot LOL! Advice? Suggestions? Comforting words of encouragement?