My DD is 6 yrs old and currently a lv 2. She is at a powerhouse gym in the state and all are expected to do well. We recently went to a meet and our girls were the only level from the gym that didn't take 1st place. It was a very difficult meet with great gyms from other states. All of the girls on the team got a PB on at least one event. Although they didn't win and had some falls, overall they did great in my mind. They are a young team and the many of the other level 2 teams were much older. At practice yesterday they were told by one of their coaches that they did really bad at the meet. Nothing positive was said both at the meet and at practice yesterday. This breaks my heart and not really sure what to make of this comment. (On a side note, there is always a lot of yelling at the girls during practice and very rarely anything positive said.) Seeing that this is this teams first year competing and most of them are 7 or under, this is really bothering me.
I have been on the verge of leaving a few times but she loves gymnastics and competing and this is the only gym in the area that competes level 2. I am starting to think about our next steps for level 3. We have a couple options but not really sure what to do..so please help me sort out a few things. We have a gym that is 5 minutes down the road that isn't very successful but the girls seem to have fun and the coaches are very positive but it would be a huge step down in training. There is another gym that is 35 minutes away that is very successful but my husband is not crazy about the distance but the training is very good. Our other option is to stay at the current gym (10 minutes) and keep telling our daughter to keep her chin up and give her lots of positive reinforcement. I am sure other people have been in similar situations and I know each family has to make a decision that works best for them but I would love to hear what you all think. My daughter is not going elite or planning on college gymnastics at this point. (I know it is very early and she is very young but she loves many other sports and activities too. ) TIA!
I have been on the verge of leaving a few times but she loves gymnastics and competing and this is the only gym in the area that competes level 2. I am starting to think about our next steps for level 3. We have a couple options but not really sure what to do..so please help me sort out a few things. We have a gym that is 5 minutes down the road that isn't very successful but the girls seem to have fun and the coaches are very positive but it would be a huge step down in training. There is another gym that is 35 minutes away that is very successful but my husband is not crazy about the distance but the training is very good. Our other option is to stay at the current gym (10 minutes) and keep telling our daughter to keep her chin up and give her lots of positive reinforcement. I am sure other people have been in similar situations and I know each family has to make a decision that works best for them but I would love to hear what you all think. My daughter is not going elite or planning on college gymnastics at this point. (I know it is very early and she is very young but she loves many other sports and activities too. ) TIA!