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what Coachp said. but I also agree with Taucer that a lot of this can be avoided by providing good communication. An FAQ at the beginning of each season that is relevant to the gymnast's level/grouping, using specifics and generalizations: logistics of scheduling/payments/injuries/illness etc. these are the skills we will be working on. This is the typical time frame - some may learn faster, others slower. This is what will happen if she doesn't have all her skills by a certain time. This is what to expect at meets. this is what we expect of you and your gymnasts at meets. Judging often doesn't make sense even to the coaches at times ;-). No, it is not worth trying to it-pick a routine to figure out why she scored this. As coaches, we generally know what needs to be worked on and we are doing that at practice. No you shouldn't practice/coach at home and here is why. No you shouldn't badger your child about not getting a skill and here is why... you get the point. yes, praise your gymnast for her effort at practice and meets. It takes a lot of courage to get out there in a leo and perform these skills in front of an audience. You get the point.
I also think that coaches should have meetings with each parent (1-2x/yr) to discus progress and questions, even is there is an "open door" policy.
Keep in mind that some teams are very large and this is not possible. I have over 90 girls on team, thats 90 to 180 meetings a year! (just thew up in my mouth).